I guess I am having an internal battle on this one. My grandparents (my father's parents) have made absolutely no effort to see me in the past... 6 and a half years. I can count, in that time, the number of phone calls I have received from them. Well, they got a cabin for a week in December, and they really want me to be there. My dad is giving me the whole "they are getting old, this may be the last time you see them" crap. I don't want to go, and if I do go, it will be because my father wants me there. I don't even feel like they are part of my life. He has 2 brothers & 1 sister and I can count the number of times I have spoken/seen them too. One has a 5 year old kid that I have never seen. I don't know what to do. I don't know if I should just go, take a book, and pretend to have fun. Should I stay and feel no true guilt? My mom said "without them, you only have my dad left." I said no, honestly, they are not part of my life. They are family through genetics and obligation only. What do you guys think?